Collaborative Divorce Solicitors

The firm has an excellent reputation and a very high level of professionalism.

Chambers & Partners, 2023

If you and your former partner choose to divorce, reaching an agreement doesn’t have to be difficult and confrontational. Collaborative divorce is a unique out of court process where you, your ex-partner and your divorce lawyers, accredited in this model of resolution, sit down and try to work out an agreement together. This process can be used in both agreeing a financial settlement and/or child arrangements for the future.

Our collaboratively trained lawyers will use their experience and skill to make the discussions and negotiations run as smoothly as possible to the benefit of both you and your ex-partner. Contact us to discuss your situation in a free initial consultation.

Collaborative family law could be the best route for you if:

  • Both you and your partner want to come to a solution together
  • You can both discuss matters openly and productively
  • You can have honest conversations about the issues in your divorce or separation throughout the entire process

In divorces which involve children and co-parenting, collaborative family law can help the family maintain a good relationship. This makes life more comfortable in the future for everyone involved.

Why choose Irwin Mitchell's collaborative divorce solicitors?

Our family law team is very experienced in divorce matters – both in and out of court. We are highly-ranked by independent legal guides Chambers & Partners and the Legal 500, and are widely recognised as one of the leading divorce firms in the country.

We've offices in major cities throughout the UK, and will work with you on a personal level, providing no-nonsense, honest advice on the best options for your situation.

Aside from our renowned family law experts, we can also refer you to other specialist teams across the firm. These teams can help you navigate other areas that need addressing after a divorce. Other teams that could be of help include:

  • Child arrangements – If you and your ex-partner have children, you may need legal help negotiating arrangements for them. This can include custody, child maintenance, access to your children, or arranging or disputing your child’s relocation after a divorce.
  • Conveyancing and property – Our legal property experts can help you with issues such as remortgaging or buying or selling a house.
  • Wills – If you need to alter your Will after a divorce, our solicitors can help you to edit your Will to reflect your new wishes. Our Wills writing form can also help you to write one from scratch if you need to create one.
  • Counselling – Alongside the legal process of a divorce can comes the emotional process of navigating a new life. We understand that this can be a distressing and uncertain time for you. We offer four free counselling sessions with our in-house counsellor, Vicky Lambert, with the option of further paid sessions if you need them.
  • Mediation – If you’d prefer to work with a neutral mediator to resolve disputes with your partner in a divorce, our trained mediation experts can help you work in this equally collaborative way.
  • Financial Dispute Resolution – If you and your former spouse need help negotiating complex financial issues, we can offer a neutral evaluation of the likely outcome of your case.

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Ros Bever is an excellent lawyer who is passionate about getting things right."

Chambers & Partners, 2019

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I’m worried my ex-partner won’t be honest in a collaborative divorce?

The collaborative divorce process can only work if there is trust between you and your ex-partner. If you don’t trust them, collaborative divorce may not be for you.

If the process fails, you'll have to pay for the unsuccessful attempt, on top of future court proceedings. Our specialist collaborative lawyers are trained to assess suitability for the process at the outset and will discuss your options.

What's the difference between mediation and collaborative divorce?

Mediation and collaborative divorce have the same goals, but the process differs. Both mediation and collaborative divorce are informal processes compared to going to court and offer greater flexibility.

When you opt for mediation, a mediator will help you to negotiate your differences to reach a resolution.

This mediator will be completely neutral, and their responsibility is to make sure both parties have an equal voice. This helps to ensure the settlement is fair to you and your partner.

In the case of collaborative divorce, you and your partner will each be represented by a collaborative lawyer. This may make it seem slightly more formal, but the aim is still to reach a satisfactory agreement for both parties. Mediators don’t advise or represent either party during the process.

If you’re unsure which option would be best for you, contact our family law team for a free initial consultation. When we know a little more about your circumstances, we’ll be able to advise you on whether mediation or collaboration is a better option.

Can Irwin Mitchell help me with the collaborative divorce process if I live in Scotland?

Yes, if you’re based in Scotland, we can still help you with the collaborative divorce process.

Our expert family law team works with various renowned partners, who can help our clients that live in Scotland. We’ll still be your main contact throughout the divorce process and will make sure you’re fully informed.

We’ll cut out any legal jargon and make sure you’re happy with all steps we take on your behalf. Get in touch today to discuss how we can help you.

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Family Law Team Of The Year 2023
Legal 500 - Leading Firm 2025
Legal 500 - Top Tier Firm2025
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