Major Survey Examines Impact Of Divorce On Teens
A new survey has revealed the devastating impact divorce can have on some teenagers and young adults, including an effect on exam results and an increased likelihood of turning to drink or drugs.
The survey of 14 to 22-year-olds by family law body Resolution revealed that nearly two-thirds (65%) of those affected by divorce think it had an impact on their GCSE results, while 44% said their A-levels suffered.
Additionally, 15% of those surveyed said they had to move school because of their parents' divorce, which may have affected their academic achievement.
Meanwhile, nearly three in ten (28%) said they started eating more than usual after their parents' break-up, while 14% said they drank more alcohol. Another 13% said they experimented or considered experimenting with drugs.
The survey also revealed that social media can turn into a troubling place for those affected, with some respondents saying they found pictures of new partners or family members' comments about a divorce upsetting.
"It is crucial that couples do everything possible to resolve disagreements in an amicable way that minimises stress on all family members – particularly any children they may have," said chair of Resolution Jo Edwards.
Expert Opinion
Throughout our work to provide support and advice to couples going through a divorce or separation, we always stress that ensuring the needs of any children involved is the top priority. <br/> <br/>"Relationship breakdown has an impact on more than just the two people going through the process. As this research highlights, regardless of the circumstances which have led couples to take this step and go their separate ways it is vital that young people are always considered in any decision made – as their consequences of failing to take them into account can be massive. <br/> <br/>"The courts already take steps to ensure that the best of interests of child are a priority, by assessing their needs and characteristics to put arrangements in place to promote their wellbeing. Following a recent change in the law, the family courts now also presume that - when it is safe to do – the involvement of each parent in the life of a child is a positive step. <br/> <br/>"However, it is of course not just the responsibility of the courts to consider such issues. Parents need to do everything they can to ensure that a separation can be finalised amicably with the best interests of their children at the heart of decision."